A Woman’s number one relationship goal
Should be with herself first.
How a woman sees herself
Will set the standard of how she allows men to treat her.
She’s got to make herself a priority,
And know that it’s okay!
Women need NOT to be so easily
Flattered by what a man has,
But instead be flattered by his
Strength, courage, integrity, and character.
Be impressed by his ability to be
Honest, faithful, loving, and respectful.
Be impressed because he can
Communicate and openly express his feelings with you.
Be impressed because he’s got
Confidence,
Direction,
And purpose in his life.
Be impressed because he’s a
Quality man, NOT a handsome man.
His looks should be a bonus, NOT the main factor.
Don’t compromise yourself and stay in an unhealthy relationship that causes you hurt, pain, and disappointment.
You are worthy of genuine love, ladies!
Save your love for someone who TRULY
Deserves it, appreciates it, and wants it.
Don’t disrespect yourself by lowering your standards
And accepting his foul behavior…
You absolutely do NOT deserve to be treated like
You don’t matter… You DO matter.
Your happiness and well-being are important…
Protect it by always valuing who you are!
It takes a special King to love
His Queen properly…
To value her as the Woman she is
And NOT take advantage of her.
Don’t be in a rush, ladies…
You want a man that’s going to spoil you differently!
Be patient and wait on a man that spoils you with his
Love, honesty, and commitment.
His respect, honor, and appreciation.
His attentiveness.
His kindness, understanding, and genuine love.
You want a man that you can create memorable memories with.
Have confidence in yourself!
Love yourself, flaws and all!
Be kind to yourself!
See the best in yourself!
Celebrate yourself!
Know that you are worthy of authentic love!
Just say NO to
Dead-end, unhealthy, and toxic relationships.
You are a Queen!
Protect your heart.
Protect your smile.
Protect your happiness.
Protect your peace of mind.
Don’t destroy yourself over
A man’s foolishness.
Don’t get caught up
Simply because you’re
Bored, lonely, or
Lacking in self-esteem.
Know your worth, Queen…
Respect, love, and value yourself…
You matter!!!
Written by Stephanie Lahart! Black Female Author and Poet, Youth Motivational Speaker for At-Risk Teens, Teen Mentor, and Entrepreneur.
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